If you want to surround yourself with some of the most beautiful, friendly and intelligent women in the world then you need to seriously consider taking a trip to Colombia.
It’s a fact that Colombian women are among some of the most beautiful in the world. Good news and bad news? The bad news is that the country is still poor with many people living below the poverty line. The good news is that the women want men in their lives but their first choice is not the locals.
Colombia itself is a country with a population of roughly 47 million people, and is located on the northwest coast of South America. The country has a very rich ethnic mix based on the Spanish colonial years, African migrants to the country and of course the natural beauty of the native South Americans.
Colombia is nestled between Venezuela, Ecuador, Peru, Brazil and Panama and has a coastline that includes the Caribbean Sea and the South Pacific Ocean. The capital is Bogota and the country’s population is almost 50 million. Its attractions include mountains, valleys, rivers, beaches and women.
Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
South American countries are somewhat like the SE Asian countries with regard to their women. They want a life different to the one they are living and opportunities to make those changes are tough in these countries without some outside help.
Sometimes just a short change will make them happy and allow them to forget their normal lives for a couple of weeks of fun. This is where you come in. You want a holiday in a South American country and it would be nice to spend that time in the company of a beautiful local.
On a Wing and a Prayer
You can wing it. Travel to Bogota and maybe Medellin and see what you can snare at the clubs and bars. In a country like Colombia, this is not really the best plan. Preferable to the cities are the beaches.
With almost 1800 km of beaches, your choices are many. San Andrés, Palomino, Tolú and Bahía Solano are a few of the more popular but you can get well away from it all any of the other hundred or so beaches along the coastline. You can also pick your water – Caribbean or Pacific. Walking the beaches, you, at least, get to see the girls in a lot less than their usual day wear.
Be the ‘Gringo’ that Stands Out
One of the differences you will realise fairly quickly when in Colombia is that you won’t look a lot different to the local guys, unless, of course, you are blond haired and fair skinned. Once the girls click on the fact that you are not a local, a ‘gringo’, that will get their curiosity buzzing.
Your biggest problem is to control yourself and not latch onto the first beauty you see. The one just around the corner is more than likely even prettier. Be cool.
Hint: Take the time to learn a little Spanish. It’s going to get you further into a relationship faster than if you know nothing. Spanish is not a difficult language to learn. You don’t have to be conversational perfect, but some romantic phrases and getting around with taxis, restaurants and greetings won’t take you more than a couple of weeks.
The women you try to chat up will appreciate it too. Sign language can get you so far, but no local language means you can’t impress a lovely lady from another country with your loving words.
Arriving in a new country can be a bit daunting and trying to start a relationship with somebody over a short period of time is not really the best way to go. Sure, you can get laid by paying for it, and in Colombia there are plenty of places that offer those services, but that’s not what this article is about.
It takes time to build trust and interest with women. Most girls would be wary of giving their hearts to a tourist, even an ‘easy’ girl. There’s no future in it for them. While stereotyping women can be dangerous, it is true to say that Colombian women love and adore their men, they make excellent wives and beautiful companions.
If all you’re offering is a 2-week vacation filled with fun, laughter and loving and then goodbye, you might end up with a disappointing trip.
The best way to go is to register with a couple of Colombian Dating sites, of which there are many. Pick what you think are two of the best. Add a couple of nice photos to your profile and see what happens. Direct emailing and, if possible, occasionally chatting on cam will help pick the girl for you.
From this simple strategy you can dispose of the girls chasing just money, the ones who can’t speak a word of English, the married ones and the women with children.
You do NOT need complications on your holiday. By the way, if it’s just a holiday, make sure the girl knows it. That way there are no misconceptions about the basis of the relationship.
Colombia is the most travelled-to country in South America, for good reason. The attractions are many, so even if you bomb out with the opposite sex, you’re still guaranteed to have a great time seeing the sights, enjoying the country, eating the food and flirting with the girls.
Colombian Women: An Overview
Are the women of Colombia different in any way to the women living elsewhere in South America? Well the first thing you need to know about Colombian women is that they take a lot of pride in their appearance, so you’re not going to find them wandering through a local market wearing their pyjamas, or a pair of tattered jeans.
If you take the women of Medellin for example you’ll notice that most of them look and dress like models, and the reason for this is that they probably are: Medellin is the modelling capital of Colombia.
In as much as Colombian women take care of their appearance they’re also very friendly, and are more than willing to hold a conversation with a gringo (their pet name for Western/American guys), but they do expect you to be polite and well groomed.
This means showered, suited up, hair combed, good shoes and nice cologne – don’t even think about turning up wearing shorts and flip-flops because it won’t score you any brownie points.
Spanish is the language spoken by over 99% of Colombians, so if you want to make a good impression on your Colombian lady friend then learn some Spanish before you get here.
It’s also worth mentioning that each city in Colombia has its own slang, so if you can learn a little bit of local slang before you get there you’ll find that when you sound like a local it’s very easier to break the ice with these Latina beauties.
Over 70% of Colombians are Catholic, with another 16% following the Protestant faith, meaning Colombia is a religious country as a whole. You’ll also notice this in how family-oriented Colombian women are.
They’re also quite independent, but there’s always the desire to settle down and start their own family. In terms of religious adherence you’ll find that Colombia is a little bit more relaxed than some other countries in South America, with the focus being on a laid-back lifestyle rather than a strict religious lifestyle.
The big question most guys ask about Colombian women is will they date a gringo or not? The good news is that Colombian women have absolutely no problem dating gringos, well as long as they’re polite, well dressed and behave like gentlemen.
Basically if you treat a Colombian Latina well she’s going to treat you very well in return, and women from this part of South America are more than happy to date or marry a man twice their age if he’s a good match for them.
Colombia – The Country
One of the biggest problems for Western men travelling to Colombia in search of love had been the violence between the Colombian government and the forces of the Revolutionary Armed Forces of Colombia (FARC).
This conflict is now a thing of the past, and not only is Colombia a safe place to travel to and party in. In fact most of the cities here have lower crime rates than cities of the same size in the United States. As a country Colombia is also enjoying an economic boom, with all the wealth and prosperity that goes with it.
Fortunately Colombia is located in the northern part of South America, which means getting there is usually just a short flight from the southern United States.
Even if you’re living in some of the northern states, or Canada for example, you can still travel to Colombia in less than a single day – it’s just a single long-haul flight away.
In even better news you’re going to love the fact that tickets from the United States to Bogota can be purchased for around $150, which means you won’t have to remortgage your home to travel there.
Cultural Barriers To Marriage
As a general rule there’s absolutely nothing to stop you from dating and marrying a Colombian woman – we mentioned earlier that women from this part of South America are very family-oriented, so will be more than willing to marry the right guy, or at least she will be once she finds you!
Just be prepared in advance to meet a Colombian girl’s family early on in the dating game – they don’t waste any time, plus you also need to make sure you make a great first impression the first time around because her family will expect it!