The mail order bride industry in the Dominican Republic is deeply ingrained into the culture. The women are amazing, but they are only part of the story.
The DR is an island paradise, sharing the island of Hispaniola, the second largest island in the Caribbean behind Cuba, with Haiti. It has pristine white sand beaches, clear lakes, fog shrouded green mountains, fast flowing rivers, great deep sea fishing, and some of the best Spanish colonial architecture anywhere north of Lima, Peru.
And that is all cool, but it is also only a three hours and thirty-five minute flight from New York City!
For men used to spending butt crushing eighteen hour flights to Thailand or the Philippines this is incredible.
Even if it was not overrun with beautiful women you should put the Dominican Republic on your bucket list of places of to visit before you die.
The women will make you want to live there and they are a bigger tourist attraction than the beaches, mountains, and deep sea fishing. Really, would you rather hook the perfect blue marlin or the perfect bikini girl.
The prostitution is a big business across the country and for adults, legal. For many women becoming a prostitute, call girl, or serial girlfriend is simply a much better job than anything else.
It is essentially the same story as Brazil, Thailand and the Philippines. Poverty is a disease of reality and the quickest cure for many women seems to be prostitution. It is generally accepted within the culture and you cannot really blame these women for trying to take control of their own fate.
Dominicans like to blame this situation on American and Canadian tourists. Now, personally I always blame Canadians for pretty much anything, but here’s an interesting statistic that calls the culpability of the denizens of the Great White North into doubt.
The biggest number of clients that visit brothels in the Dominican Republic are the local men. How’s that? The following story about the life of a prostitute and how it all works is almost identical to the Philippines and worth a read to enlighten you.
Now, before you read any further you need to remember that, despite what cynics say on some websites, there are Dominican women who are “Good Girls” and do not participate in the commercial sex industry. Walking around the center of the tourist area of Santo Domingo and propositioning beautiful girls at random is an excellent way to get slapped hard your dog howls.
There are many educated, pious Catholic girls who go to Mass every day, and are dedicated college students or rising young professionals. Most Dominican women are in this category. That is the truth and they are beautiful.
In fact, though the guys who love the brothels would beg to differ the real truth is that the most beautiful Dominican women are usually good girls.
One type of ‘Dating.’
Why do you need to know this? It’s a warning that maybe not all is at seems to be when you enter a dating site or land in the country for a holiday. And you want to do both. Admittedly it’s not vital that you find yourself a date if you decide on a vacation in the Dominican Republic, but personal experience tells me that it’s a darn site more fun.
By the way, if you’re happy with paying for a lady to accompany you on a two-week holiday that’s fine. Just be a bit choosy when you go to a club to pick her up. But that’s not the idea of this article which is about forming a relationship with a Dominican beauty and having an even better time.
For that you normally are not going to be going to the same places and doing the same thing you would if you are just going to hook up with a travel girl.
And it is not rocket science to find a “Good Girl” who wants to become a Dominican bride in the worse way possible.
Why Do These Women Want To Be Mail Order Brides?
The women in this country fall into the same characteristics as most South American or Latin American countries. Their place is as a homemaker, raising the kids,
cooking, sewing and cleaning and taking care of their husbands. Although they are not noted for being the breadwinner in the household, it’s interesting to note that the workforce of the Dominican Republic is made up of 51.5% women.
This is the nature of machismo across Latin America. The men lay about drink and want to be treated like great Scottish lairds. They want to keep a haram and collect money from their girlfriends. It is crazy, but it is deeply ingrained in the culture.
And this is exactly why so many Dominican mail order brides are overjoyed to meet a hardworking American or even a Canadian guy. Their own men might worship them, if they are lucky, but they do not respect them. And no matter how much women love to be worshipped nothing makes a woman love you more than knowing you respect her.
Aretha Franklin said it for about fifty billion women living and dead from queens of great nations to queens of Bourbon Street, the East End, and Angeles City: R-E-S-P-E-C-T!
But don’t get me wrong. Dominican brides want to be looked after so if you’re setting up a meeting and date for a visit you should act like a man is expected. Be firm, take care of her, treat her well, be romantic and you’ll find a lovely partner that appreciates you and will make for a hot time for your stay there while on vacation.
Setting up the Date
Considering the amount of prostitution in the Dominican Republic, you can bet that you’re going to get laid if you just take a vacation there. Whether that’s the safest course of action depends entirely on you and how you go about it.
The recommendation is to register with a dating site, and for the girl of this country, there are a few available on the internet. Add a few nice photos to your profile and see what pops up in your mail.
Whether you can cam or not will depend on the internet access the girl has available, but it’s highly desirable for peace of mind.
Don’t forget the online dating rules:
- The right age for you but remember, if you’re a bit older the younger girls won’t mind. They actually prefer it.
- Make sure she’s not married or has children from a previous marriage.
- Can she speak English enough to communicate?
- Her looks and what turns you on.
- Asking for money? Bye! Bye!
- Not enough communication would be suspicious.
- Fantastic but unbelievable stories? No.
- Is she available for a 2 weeks holiday?
Dominican Brides – Exotic Beauties With a Touch of Class
Where do we even start? Well obviously, the first thing to mention is that the multicultural influences of over 500 years of mixing European, African and Native American genes has produced a truly rare form of beauty.
What’s so very special about women from this part of the Caribbean is that there are so many different skin tones in view every single day.
In fact DR women even have their own nicknames for them like canela, blanca oscura, and asmorena – nothing is simply black or white in the DR. In short visiting the Dominica Republic will expose you to the kind of physical and aesthetic beauty you’ll struggle to find anywhere else in the world.
One small note here is that women from this part of the Caribbean tend to be very superstitious due to a number of cultural influences, so bear this in mind when talking to them i.e. take their superstitions seriously because they most certainly will.
As you’ll find with the vast majority of women from Central and South America family is very, very important to women from the DR – women here expect to find a good man, and then have lots of healthy, happy children with him.
Family stability is also very important to women from the Dominican Republic, as is loyalty and truly sharing family values. A major benefit of being from the United States or Europe when dating women here is that they see Western men as being far more faithful, and a much better choice when it comes to marriage because of this.
Unlike most Western women you’ll find that Caribbean women value honesty, stability, loyalty and family far more than they do money or physical possessions.
Obviously, they want a stable environment for their children to grow up in, but they’re not the materialistic, money-grabbers that are so prevalent in Western society – in fact Dominican women are the exact opposite.
As a general rule women in the Dominican Republic are well educated, with the country boasting a literacy rate of around 85%. Due to its colonial heritage the people of the DR obviously speak Spanish as their primary language, but you’ll find that the vast majority of women also speak English as it’s taught as a secondary language in the better private schools here.
Just bear in mind that you shouldn’t expect the Latinas of the Dominical Republic to be 100% fluent in English, but you will find they’re eager and willing to learn the language from any man willing to take the time to teach them.
Despite the fact that over 70% of the people living here are Catholic, the Dominican Republic is actually a very secular and tolerant country. In addition to a large Christian community there are also Judaic, Islamic and Buddhist religious communities active here too.
There are no levels of religious extremism present here, so there are no religious barriers to you marrying any woman from the DR, from that point of view.
About The Dominican Republic
The Dominican Republic (República Dominicana) is a beautiful island in the Caribbean which shares its land mass with Haiti, but is the polar opposite to Haiti when it comes to lifestyle, education and just about everything else in life.
This is a modern, vibrant country with lots to offer everyone, especially men who are looking to date and marry the incredibly beautiful Latina women who live here. In terms of overall stability the Dominican Republic has been a democracy since 1978 – a rarity in most parts of Central and South America.
Located just a very short distance from Cuba the Dominican Republic has a population of just over 9 million people in total, and is one of the most highly-modernized countries in the Caribbean.
This modernization also means that the economy of the DR is very healthy, adding more stability to the country itself. There’s also the fact that it’s an island paradise, filled with some of the most beautiful Latinas you could ever hope to lay your eyes on – but we’ll just call that a bonus!
If you’re living in the United States you’ll never be more than a few hours flight away from the Dominica Republic, with most flights from the southern United States taking no more than 3 hours. If you’re flying here from further away you’ll get connecting flights from Miami, Panama, Houston and NYC, for example.
Some airlines fly there from the USA. The ticket prices can be as low as $400 return, using Denver as starting point. It seems nobody flies there direct, all flights show stopovers. Seeing that it’s an island country, your choices are limited, unless you are a champion rower! Check Google Flights for the best prices.
Things to Do In The DR
It’s not a good idea to take your date to places like Sosua or Boca Chica, hotbeds of prostitution. There are innumerable places of great beauty to go and things to see. Plan your holiday so you have it all organized before you pick up your date.
You first have to do a bit of a meet and greet but if you did your homework, then your Dominican Republic beauty should be ready to go anywhere with you once you have arrived there. Click here if you’re not sure what to do. This site has some good ideas.
There are absolutely no religious, cultural or other barriers to you dating and then marrying any woman from the Dominica Republic. Women here value the stability and loyalty which western men can bring to their lives, offering these men the same levels of loyalty and love in return.